We love a person, but also the life they awaken in us
Our attachment involves a person and also the emotions, possibilities, and vitality their presence awakens within us.
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Articles to help you understand personal or relationship difficulties, step back from tensions and find guidance for communicating, making decisions and moving forward.
Let us not come empty and ask the other person to fill us
Nurturing our own resources prevents us from giving another person the impossible task of filling every emptiness.
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When hope for the relationship fades, our life must not fade with it
The loss of romantic hope can deeply unsettle us without reducing our life, relationships, and future to that loss.
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Relational value is given, received, and upheld
Value within a relationship grows when it can be offered, received, and consistently upheld by both people.
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The three screens of our choices
Viewing our choices from several angles helps distinguish what we truly want, protect, and actually build.
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We already love ourselves, but not always in the right way
Love may already exist, yet the way we express it can require greater attention, listening, and adjustment.
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The weight of something also depends on how long we hold it
A difficulty can feel heavier when we carry it for a long time without rest, perspective, or support.
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Self-reflection examines our choices, not our worth
Questioning ourselves helps us examine our decisions without confusing a possible mistake with our inherent personal worth.
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